When I read tall personals or any personals for that matter, one thought comes to mind:

"A tall woman doesn't need a tall man, a tall woman needs a man who stands tall."

This is the absolute truth.

I've been fooled by Napoleon complex enough to know the difference between standing tall and acting big. After all confidence and cockiness are two different things. (I know that the issue of a tall woman dating a short man is a hot button topic .)

I believe many tall women exude the kind of sensuous strength and confidence that many confident men seek. In days gone by, there were women stronger than you and I. And not as tall. Think of Annie Oakley. Pocahontas. Helen Keller. The tales of Harriet Tubman. Were they tall women? (well... they were, but not in the literal sense...;-) Were they "feminists"? (I have nothing against feminists, in some ways I may be somewhat of a feminist, but just imagine if men ran around calling themselves masculinists?, let's bury the hatchet...) No, many of these types of heroic women never heard of the word, and they had a true purpose. They were strong women willing to make a difference.

Did these women cower in "frailty", and hide behind a veil of femininity? Did they blame "the man" for holding them down?

No, they stood proud because they chose to, and to them the alternative was not an option, their purpose in life drove them to make a difference.

There are many good men who seek this same strength in a partner. As you should seek this strength in a partner. Again...

"A tall woman doesn't need a tall man, a tall woman needs a man who stands tall."

Tall girls are ridiculed, belittled, and outcast by boys because boys don't really know what they want or need. When you leave the boys behind, you will find that men will appear. This is up to you, because "leaving the boys behind" means you need to make a conscious psychological change in the way you view the world. Your a tall woman, so quite viewing the world like every other "little girl".

I was a "I want to be petite" girl for many years. Now I stand tall. Life is too short and you are who you are, and why on earth would you want to be anything less?

So should you seek out a mate taller than you? No. You should seek out a mate with the strength of character to always stand tall.

Don't you want a partner who stands tall?

Whether you're looking for or are strictly interested in tall dating -- or you're a tall woman dating whomever appeals to you -- you should always look for a partner who stands tall!

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